The Big O

Avid watchers of Oprah Winfrey's show can recite the format of a typical episode: the episode starts and Oprah introduces a woman who has divorced her husband and written a book. Then Oprah shows some clips with intense music playing in the background. Next, the interview starts and Oprah asks all the right questions. Finally, the guest breaks down, cries, picks herself back up and says, "That's my story, but now life is great: go buy my book!" The audience gets a free copy, the guest is unburdened and the credits role just in time for the five o'clock news.

As I mature, I realize that my life and all its wonderful issues could never be unpacked and solved in an hour. This realization is a tough one to accept because I've always secretly dreamed of having my Oprah moment: I tell my story to the world while all the 50-year-old housewives in the audience nod in agreement. And then poof—all my problems are solved.

That magic solution is clearly not realistic.

Still, I have always felt that Oprah is amazing. I know a lot of people agree with me, but lately I find myself having to defend Ms. Winfrey from friends and even strangers who seem to have a general disdain for her. Their arguments include that she is egotistical, has her own agenda, and enjoys brainwashing. Has Oprah been trying to trick me into buying the "Oprah" brand with her "You're all getting one!" moments and therapy-like interviews? Well, maybe. I have to admit: I bought the books, I've tried the Acai berries and I watch Rachel Ray and Dr. Oz (Dr. Phil, not so much).

The anti-Oprah movement can also be seen in the recent release of a book simply titled "Oprah." The author, Kitty Kelley, claims she has proof that the queen of daytime lied about aspects of her past, including that she had been molested at a young age. The author also says that Oprah is a complete diva behind the scenes and rumored to have ordered crew members to tie her shoes. Could this be true? Is Oprah a liar and a diva?

I can accept her being a diva, but a liar? I think not. I feel Oprah is far too honest, caring and passionate on her show to be a liar (she can't be that good of an actress). Sure, she does have her plugs and promotions, but I have seen her cry, laugh and truly empathize with guests ranging from male-to-female transsexuals and handicapped children to famous authors and high-powered politicians.

Ultimately, I think I have come to a conclusion about my feelings on Oprah Winfrey and can offer some advice to those struggling with this: don't overdose on Oprah—moderation is key. She is really good at what she does. But sadly, she does not have all the answers.